The child shouldn’t have to pay for the
mistakes their parents make nor should they suffer because their parents don’t
get along. The parents should try to keep a relationship so that they’re both
up to date on what’s happening with the child. I think both parents need to be
open-minded and think about what is best for the child and put aside their own
selfish needs. The worst thing a parent can
do during a divorce is bad-mouth the other parent behind their back TO the kid.
That’s what my dad would do about my mom when they were going through the
process. Honestly, that made me resent my father even more rather than side
with him. Another way to lessen the pain is to ask the child who they want to
live with. They should also have decent visitation rights for the other parent
so the child doesn’t lose that connection. Lastly, the mother, father, and
child(ren) should all spend a little time together at once so that the kid can
spend time with both parents.
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